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Biblical Truth About Self-Esteem: Is the Cross Really a Source of Self-Worth? by David Tyler, PhD For decades, the message of “loving yourself” has seeped deeply into modern Christianity. Sermons, books, and conferences often teach that the key to happiness and spiritual growth is found in developing healthy self-esteem. But what does the Bible say about self-esteem? Does the cross of Christ call us to esteem ourselves more, or does it call us to die to self and glorify God? As believers, we must return to Scripture for clarity. The issue isn’t about psychology, personal affirmation, or “feeling good” about [...]
Many people today struggle with gender dysphoria and confusion about identity. Biblical discernment begins with God—not feelings—and offers truth and hope for those living in a fallen world. This article explains how Scripture addresses gender confusion, the renewed mind, and transformation in Christ.
Where does emotional pain really come from? Discover how the Bible explains the heart behind our emotions, and why true healing begins with a biblical worldview, not a diagnosis.
Is My Loved One Sinful or Sick? In this episode of the David Tyler Podcast, Dr. David M. Tyler explores the important question: Is my loved one sinful, or are they sick? Nearly all marriage and family problems stem from sinful attitudes and behaviors. Yet today, culture often labels sin as a “disorder” or “disease.” Drawing from Scripture, Dr. Tyler examines the dangers of redefining sin, why it matters for biblical counseling, and how hope and healing are found only in Christ.
Who Are You When No one is Watching? “It’s easy to look spiritual in public, but who are you at home? This podcast calls men to authenticity, humility, and Christlike leadership where it matters most.”
A Counseling Ministry at Your Church; Why? Counseling is a targeted part of discipleship that addresses the personal struggles keeping someone from growing spiritually. It involves coming alongside them, applying Scripture to their situation, and helping them understand how to change. It’s a more concentrated and temporary form of discipleship with the goal of restoring spiritual momentum and guiding them back to steady, ongoing growth in Christ.
A Courageous Husband and Father The most foundational form of leadership in society is a husband and father’s leadership in the home. From creation, God established man as the head of the family, calling him to lead with Christlike love and raise his children in the Lord’s instruction. A father’s influence shapes future leaders, making strong leadership at home essential.
Why I Hated Counseling I served as a pastor for 27 years—and I loved it. I loved studying God’s Word and preaching it each week. But one thing I dreaded was counseling. When someone came to me with years of depression, anxiety, or anger, I didn’t know how to help. I could pray with them, listen, maybe share a verse… but deep down, I felt unprepared. What could I offer that would truly change things?”
Love Languages is Not Your Problem The Five Love languages by Gary Chapman. I do think he gives some constructive advice. For example, everybody has their preferences as to the way they like their spouse to show love. On the other hand, I don’t agree with his main premise. Chapman’s premise is built upon the fact that all people have a natural focus and bias toward self. Self, not God or neighbor is the focus of the book.
“When Grief Hits Home” Part 2 “How Long Will You Grieve?” Habitual Grief (1 Samuel 16:1) Biblical Steps to Move Forward When Grief Takes Over By David M. Tyler, PhDIf you missed Part 1, you can read it here: https://bit.ly/3FKooU9 Let’s Talk Honestly, Grief Can Become Sinful Grief isn’t a sin. It’s normal. Even Jesus wept. But habitual grief is a sin. It’s when grief takes over, when it becomes a way of life and keeps us from doing what God has called us to do, that’s a problem. That’s when grief crosses a line and becomes sinful. This is where [...]
When Grief Hits Home: Part 1 A Biblical Path Through Loss How God’s Word Leads You Through Sorrow with Truth and Hope By David M. Tyler, PhDThis post is Part 1 of my “When Grief Hits Home” series. If Jesus Wept, So Can You Grief is a painful reality in a fallen world. Whether it’s the loss of a spouse, a child, or a dear friend, the weight of sorrow can feel overwhelming. But there is hope, and it’s not found in temporary relief or empty clichés. It’s found in Christ. Biblical grief counseling offers more than comfort; it points us [...]
ADD ADHD: Raising Happy, Godly Kids This blog article is not about child psychology. It is not like the pragmatic approaches to parenting a child labeled ADHD. I am not proposing a new method. Instead, my goal is to present the principles of biblical parenting as it pertains to the behaviors associated with the label ADHD. I am convinced that if Christian parents understand, apply the simple principles set forth in Scripture they can bring their children up in a way that honors Christ. This is not to imply that parents with children labeled with ADHD are bad parents. It [...]
Grief: A Visitor In Every Home In the little village of Bethany there lived an unmarried man named Lazarus, and his sisters, Mary and Martha. This happy family loved the Lord Jesus Christ. Sadly, “man is born to trouble” illness comes, and grief is a regular visitor to every home. We read that Lazarus is mortally sick. His sister’s first thought is to send a message to Jesus. A word from their dear Friend would restore their brother to health. Upon hearing of Lazarus’ condition Jesus sends back a comforting answer, “This sickness is not unto death.” However, poor Lazarus [...]
Self-Esteem, Self-Love, and Self-Image Some of the most popular themes in psychology are self-image, self-esteem, self-worth, and self-love. The emphasis, regardless of the terminology used by a particular advocate of this movement, is on self. Then said Jesus unto His disciples, “If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.” (Matthew 16:24). Self-Esteem: A Powerful Influence in the Church Over the past twenty-five years the concept of esteeming oneself has had a powerful influence on the church. Before the 1970’s the subject of self-esteem was almost unheard of in evangelical [...]
