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Biblical Parenting in a Fallen World Embracing God’s Design for Raising Godly Children with Grace and FaithfulnessBy David M. Tyler, PhD Children Are a Blessing, Not a Burden Parenting begins with a right view of children. Scripture does not portray children as interruptions to the parents’ lives or obstacles to personal fulfillment. God says, “Children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward” (Psalm 127:3). They are priceless gifts, entrusted to parents for spiritual shaping and discipleship. Even after sin entered the world, God did not revoke His design for the family. His command to [...]
Trials and Afflictions: How God Uses Suffering to Shape His People By David M. Tyler, PhD Every Christian who desires to serve Christ will face seasons of hardship. These trials are not meaningless. God uses suffering to shape His people, forming, maturing, and equipping believers so they can comfort others with the comfort they’ve received. Someone once said, “Preparation for ministry cannot be gotten from a degree or diploma. It cannot be learned in college or seminary… Our trials and sorrows become our credentials.” That statement captures a truth woven throughout Scripture: God shapes His servants through affliction so they [...]
The Sin of Apathy: Indifference and Spiritual Complacency Explained By David M. Tyler, PhD Introduction: A Sin We Rarely Admit Of all the sins Christians face, few are as subtle, tolerated, or spiritually destructive as apathy, a dullness of heart toward the things of God. Apathy does not always show itself through rebellion or loud disobedience. Many times, it shows itself through silence, neglect, laziness, and spiritual passivity. Apathy whispers, “It doesn’t matter… no need to hurry… no need to obey… someone else will do it.” But Scripture is clear: apathy is sin. It is a dangerous spiritual condition that [...]
What Marriage Is, and What It Is Not By David M. Tyler, PhD Marriage is not a human idea, it was established by God for His glory and our good. Understanding what marriage is and what it is not is essential for Christians who desire to honor the Lord in their homes. Christians must return to the authority of Scripture to understand what God Himself established in the beginning. When marriage is treated as something man invented, its purpose, permanence, and holiness are lost. But when we view marriage as God intended, we see it as a sacred covenant that [...]
Standing Firm in God’s Truth When Culture ShiftsIn this episode, Dr. David Tyler examines how believers can remain anchored in God’s unchanging Word when culture redefines morality and truth. Drawing from Scripture, he explains why biblical conviction, not personal opinion, must guide how we live and counsel others. Learn how to stand firm in a world where truth is constantly shifting, yet God’s truth remains the same.
When Truth Becomes Relative When Culture Redefines Sin: Part 3 By David M. Tyler, PhD We live in a world that no longer asks, “What is true?” but instead asks, “What is true for me?”Truth has become personal, flexible, and negotiable. We have entered an age where conviction is called intolerance, and certainty is called arrogance. In this third part of our series When Culture Redefines Sin, we’ll explore how society’s rejection of absolute truth has led to moral confusion, and why Christians must stand firm in the unchanging authority of God’s Word. Just as we saw in Are You [...]
When Culture Calls Sin Love explores how modern society has blurred the line between right and wrong, calling moral compromise “love.” Dr. David Tyler opens Scripture to show how truth and compassion must never be separated—and how believers can respond with conviction and grace. Part 2 in the series “When Culture Redefines Sin.”
The Normalization of Homosexuality in Modern Culture (Part 2 in the series “When Culture Redefines Sin”) By David M Tyler, PhD In last week’s article, Are You Slothaphobic? A Biblical Response to the Redefinition of Sin, we looked at how culture renames sin to make it sound respectable. What Scripture calls sloth is rebranded as “self-care.” In the same way, our world has redefined homosexuality, not as sin, but as a legitimate and even biblical expression of love, celebrated as equal to heterosexuality. The redefinition of sin in today’s culture is not simply linguistic, it’s moral. When society calls evil [...]
When Laziness Becomes a Virtue In this episode, Dr. David M. Tyler explores how modern culture often rewards laziness and excuses irresponsibility. Through biblical counsel, he contrasts the world’s redefinition of “rest” and “self-care” with God’s call to diligence and stewardship. This practical message reminds believers that genuine rest flows from obedience, not avoidance—and that virtue is found in faithfulness, not comfort.
Part 1 Are You Slothaphobic? A Biblical Response to the Redefinition of Sin by David M Tyler, PhD Are you slothaphobic? The word doesn’t exist, at least, not yet. But imagine a world where laziness is no longer frowned upon, where indifference and apathy are celebrated as authentic expressions of self. Suppose sloth became not a vice to overcome, but an identity to embrace. Sound absurd? That’s exactly the point. The cultural pattern of redefining sin and demanding moral approval has become familiar in our day. To help us see it more clearly, let’s consider a hypothetical movement. The Rise [...]
A Counseling Ministry at Your Church; Why? Counseling is a targeted part of discipleship that addresses the personal struggles keeping someone from growing spiritually. It involves coming alongside them, applying Scripture to their situation, and helping them understand how to change. It’s a more concentrated and temporary form of discipleship with the goal of restoring spiritual momentum and guiding them back to steady, ongoing growth in Christ.
A Courageous Husband and Father The most foundational form of leadership in society is a husband and father’s leadership in the home. From creation, God established man as the head of the family, calling him to lead with Christlike love and raise his children in the Lord’s instruction. A father’s influence shapes future leaders, making strong leadership at home essential.
Why I Hated Counseling I served as a pastor for 27 years—and I loved it. I loved studying God’s Word and preaching it each week. But one thing I dreaded was counseling. When someone came to me with years of depression, anxiety, or anger, I didn’t know how to help. I could pray with them, listen, maybe share a verse… but deep down, I felt unprepared. What could I offer that would truly change things?”
Love Languages is Not Your Problem The Five Love languages by Gary Chapman. I do think he gives some constructive advice. For example, everybody has their preferences as to the way they like their spouse to show love. On the other hand, I don’t agree with his main premise. Chapman’s premise is built upon the fact that all people have a natural focus and bias toward self. Self, not God or neighbor is the focus of the book.
It’s Okay to Be Angry But … “Be angry and yet do not sin…” (Ephesians 4:26).The goal is not to eliminate all anger, only sinful anger. Unfortunately, many believers do not know how to distinguish between righteous and sinful anger. They think their sinful anger is righteous anger. The result is they remain un-reconciled with their husband, wife, mother, father, son or daughter. This podcast will help you to know the difference.
What Do Therapists Really Do? Psychotherapy is considered to be a medical intervention. But is it? What do individuals, called patients and psychotherapists, really do? They talk. Simply put… Psychotherapy is one or more people, called a patient, having a conversation with a therapist. And that is viewed as a medical intervention. Politicians, teachers, lawyers and Oprah talk but no one believes that their talk constitutes a form of medical treatment. My point is, when you consider what psychotherapists say they do and what they actually do is it really a medical intervention?
Overcoming Sinful Cravings and Desires Feel trapped by cravings that keep winning? Discover biblical, step-by-step help in our new post “Overcoming Sinful Cravings and Desires.” Learn why James 1 pinpoints the real battle, inside the heart, and how Galatians 5 shows the Spirit-powered way out. Freedom is possible!
When Crisis Strikes Your Family: A Biblical Response This episode addresses the struggles families face when unexpected trials and hardships come. Dr. David Tyler points listeners to God’s Word as the unchanging source of hope and direction in times of turmoil. This episode shows how Scripture provides clarity, comfort, and practical steps for families seeking stability in the midst of crisis. It’s a call to trust Christ and apply biblical truth when life feels overwhelming.
Is Alcoholics Anonymous Biblical? A Clear Biblical Evaluation David M. tyler, PhD. Is Alcoholics Anonymous biblical? Many Christians ask this question because Alcoholics Anonymous frequently speaks about God and spirituality. However, a closer look reveals that Alcoholics Anonymous is built on unbiblical foundations that promote spiritual relativism rather than the truth of Scripture. As Christians, we must carefully discern whether AA’s message aligns with the gospel of Jesus Christ or points people away from Him. Today, nearly every behavioral struggle, from gambling and overeating to compulsive shopping and substance abuse, has been reclassified as a “disease” and matched with a [...]
“When Grief Hits Home, Learning to Walk Again in Faith” “Grief That Leads to Growth” By David M. Tyler, PhD Biblical Counseling Marriage and Family This post is Part 4 of my When Grief Hits Home series. If you missed Part 1,2, or 3 you can read them here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Edith’s Return to Church In a follow-up session one week later, I asked Edith [...]
“When Crisis Strikes Your Family: A Biblical Response” David Tyler, PhD “When crisis strikes your home, it can feel overwhelming. But Scripture provides a biblical response to family crisis, offering wisdom, comfort, and direction for every believer. God has not left us without guidance, His Word shows us how to respond in faith rather than fear, and how to lead our families through trials with hope in Christ.” Every person is either in a crisis, has just come out of a crisis, or is headed toward one. That is the reality of life in a fallen world. But the good [...]
Difficulties and Challenges of Parenting: A Biblical Perspective by David Tyler, PhD Parenting is one of the greatest joys and also one of the most difficult challenges entrusted to us by God. Children are not inconveniences to endure; they are gifts from the Lord, blessings that bring meaning, purpose, and happiness to our lives. Scripture tells us that children are “a heritage from the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). Yet in a sinful and fallen world, raising children can feel overwhelming. Many parents today wrestle with questions like: How do I guide my children toward truth in a culture pulling them the [...]
Is My Loved One Sinful or Sick? A Biblical Response to Modern Diagnoses by David M. Tyler, PhD Nearly all marriage and family problems are the result of someone’s sinful behavior and attitude. Sadly, in today’s culture there has been a major shift in how people view these struggles. More and more, what the Bible clearly calls sin is being described as a sickness or disorder. This confusion, often referred to as the debate of sin vs sickness, creates serious problems for Christians, because it replaces biblical categories with medical or psychological ones.Nearly all marriage and family problems are the [...]
“When Grief Hits Home, Part 4 Learning to Walk Again in Faith” “Grief That Leads to Growth” By David M. Tyler, PhD Biblical Counseling Marriage and Family This post is Part 4 of my When Grief Hits Home series. If you missed Part 1,2, or 3 you can read them here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Biblical Grief Counseling: Sanctification Takes Time There is no such thing as instant [...]
“When Grief Hits Home” Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Applying 2 Timothy 3:16 to Break Free from Lingering Grief By David M. Tyler, PhD You can read parts 1 and 2 here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Biblical Counseling Marriage & Family Blog A Four-Part Framework for Biblical Change Paul wrote in 2 Timothy 3:16, “All Scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness.” These [...]
