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What Marriage Is, and What It Is Not By David M. Tyler, PhD Marriage is not a human idea, it was established by God for His glory and our good. Understanding what marriage is and what it is not is essential for Christians who desire to honor the Lord in their homes. Christians must return to the authority of Scripture to understand what God Himself established in the beginning. When marriage is treated as something man invented, its purpose, permanence, and holiness are lost. But when we view marriage as God intended, we see it as a sacred covenant that [...]
Standing Firm in God’s Truth When Culture ShiftsIn this episode, Dr. David Tyler examines how believers can remain anchored in God’s unchanging Word when culture redefines morality and truth. Drawing from Scripture, he explains why biblical conviction, not personal opinion, must guide how we live and counsel others. Learn how to stand firm in a world where truth is constantly shifting, yet God’s truth remains the same.
When Truth Becomes Relative When Culture Redefines Sin: Part 3 By David M. Tyler, PhD We live in a world that no longer asks, “What is true?” but instead asks, “What is true for me?”Truth has become personal, flexible, and negotiable. We have entered an age where conviction is called intolerance, and certainty is called arrogance. In this third part of our series When Culture Redefines Sin, we’ll explore how society’s rejection of absolute truth has led to moral confusion, and why Christians must stand firm in the unchanging authority of God’s Word. Just as we saw in Are You [...]
When Culture Calls Sin Love explores how modern society has blurred the line between right and wrong, calling moral compromise “love.” Dr. David Tyler opens Scripture to show how truth and compassion must never be separated—and how believers can respond with conviction and grace. Part 2 in the series “When Culture Redefines Sin.”
The Normalization of Homosexuality in Modern Culture (Part 2 in the series “When Culture Redefines Sin”) By David M Tyler, PhD In last week’s article, Are You Slothaphobic? A Biblical Response to the Redefinition of Sin, we looked at how culture renames sin to make it sound respectable. What Scripture calls sloth is rebranded as “self-care.” In the same way, our world has redefined homosexuality, not as sin, but as a legitimate and even biblical expression of love, celebrated as equal to heterosexuality. The redefinition of sin in today’s culture is not simply linguistic, it’s moral. When society calls evil [...]
When Laziness Becomes a Virtue In this episode, Dr. David M. Tyler explores how modern culture often rewards laziness and excuses irresponsibility. Through biblical counsel, he contrasts the world’s redefinition of “rest” and “self-care” with God’s call to diligence and stewardship. This practical message reminds believers that genuine rest flows from obedience, not avoidance—and that virtue is found in faithfulness, not comfort.
Part 1 Are You Slothaphobic? A Biblical Response to the Redefinition of Sin by David M Tyler, PhD Are you slothaphobic? The word doesn’t exist, at least, not yet. But imagine a world where laziness is no longer frowned upon, where indifference and apathy are celebrated as authentic expressions of self. Suppose sloth became not a vice to overcome, but an identity to embrace. Sound absurd? That’s exactly the point. The cultural pattern of redefining sin and demanding moral approval has become familiar in our day. To help us see it more clearly, let’s consider a hypothetical movement. The Rise [...]
Biblical Truth About Self-Esteem: Is the Cross Really a Source of Self-Worth? by David Tyler, PhD For decades, the message of “loving yourself” has seeped deeply into modern Christianity. Sermons, books, and conferences often teach that the key to happiness and spiritual growth is found in developing healthy self-esteem. But what does the Bible say about self-esteem? Does the cross of Christ call us to esteem ourselves more, or does it call us to die to self and glorify God? As believers, we must return to Scripture for clarity. The issue isn’t about psychology, personal affirmation, or “feeling good” about [...]
Many people today struggle with gender dysphoria and confusion about identity. Biblical discernment begins with God—not feelings—and offers truth and hope for those living in a fallen world. This article explains how Scripture addresses gender confusion, the renewed mind, and transformation in Christ.
Where does emotional pain really come from? Discover how the Bible explains the heart behind our emotions, and why true healing begins with a biblical worldview, not a diagnosis.
“When Grief Hits Home, Part 4 Learning to Walk Again in Faith” “Grief That Leads to Growth” By David M. Tyler, PhD Biblical Counseling Marriage and Family This post is Part 4 of my When Grief Hits Home series. If you missed Part 1,2, or 3 you can read them here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Biblical Grief Counseling: Sanctification Takes Time There is no such thing as instant [...]
“When Grief Hits Home” Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Applying 2 Timothy 3:16 to Break Free from Lingering Grief By David M. Tyler, PhD You can read parts 1 and 2 here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Biblical Counseling Marriage & Family Blog A Four-Part Framework for Biblical Change Paul wrote in 2 Timothy 3:16, “All Scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness.” These [...]
“When Grief Hits Home” Part 2 “How Long Will You Grieve?” Habitual Grief (1 Samuel 16:1) Biblical Steps to Move Forward When Grief Takes Over By David M. Tyler, PhDIf you missed Part 1, you can read it here: https://bit.ly/3FKooU9 Let’s Talk Honestly, Grief Can Become Sinful Grief isn’t a sin. It’s normal. Even Jesus wept. But habitual grief is a sin. It’s when grief takes over, when it becomes a way of life and keeps us from doing what God has called us to do, that’s a problem. That’s when grief crosses a line and becomes sinful. This is where [...]
When Grief Hits Home: Part 1 A Biblical Path Through Loss How God’s Word Leads You Through Sorrow with Truth and Hope By David M. Tyler, PhDThis post is Part 1 of my “When Grief Hits Home” series. If Jesus Wept, So Can You Grief is a painful reality in a fallen world. Whether it’s the loss of a spouse, a child, or a dear friend, the weight of sorrow can feel overwhelming. But there is hope, and it’s not found in temporary relief or empty clichés. It’s found in Christ. Biblical grief counseling offers more than comfort; it points us [...]
ADD ADHD: Raising Happy, Godly Kids This blog article is not about child psychology. It is not like the pragmatic approaches to parenting a child labeled ADHD. I am not proposing a new method. Instead, my goal is to present the principles of biblical parenting as it pertains to the behaviors associated with the label ADHD. I am convinced that if Christian parents understand, apply the simple principles set forth in Scripture they can bring their children up in a way that honors Christ. This is not to imply that parents with children labeled with ADHD are bad parents. It [...]
Grief: A Visitor In Every Home In the little village of Bethany there lived an unmarried man named Lazarus, and his sisters, Mary and Martha. This happy family loved the Lord Jesus Christ. Sadly, “man is born to trouble” illness comes, and grief is a regular visitor to every home. We read that Lazarus is mortally sick. His sister’s first thought is to send a message to Jesus. A word from their dear Friend would restore their brother to health. Upon hearing of Lazarus’ condition Jesus sends back a comforting answer, “This sickness is not unto death.” However, poor Lazarus [...]
Self-Esteem, Self-Love, and Self-Image Some of the most popular themes in psychology are self-image, self-esteem, self-worth, and self-love. The emphasis, regardless of the terminology used by a particular advocate of this movement, is on self. Then said Jesus unto His disciples, “If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.” (Matthew 16:24). Self-Esteem: A Powerful Influence in the Church Over the past twenty-five years the concept of esteeming oneself has had a powerful influence on the church. Before the 1970’s the subject of self-esteem was almost unheard of in evangelical [...]
