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When Laziness Becomes a Virtue In this episode, Dr. David M. Tyler explores how modern culture often rewards laziness and excuses irresponsibility. Through biblical counsel, he contrasts the world’s redefinition of “rest” and “self-care” with God’s call to diligence and stewardship. This practical message reminds believers that genuine rest flows from obedience, not avoidance—and that virtue is found in faithfulness, not comfort.
Part 1 Are You Slothaphobic? A Biblical Response to the Redefinition of Sin by David M Tyler, PhD Are you slothaphobic? The word doesn’t exist, at least, not yet. But imagine a world where laziness is no longer frowned upon, where indifference and apathy are celebrated as authentic expressions of self. Suppose sloth became not a vice to overcome, but an identity to embrace. Sound absurd? That’s exactly the point. The cultural pattern of redefining sin and demanding moral approval has become familiar in our day. To help us see it more clearly, let’s consider a hypothetical movement. The Rise [...]
Biblical Truth About Self-Esteem: Is the Cross Really a Source of Self-Worth? by David Tyler, PhD For decades, the message of “loving yourself” has seeped deeply into modern Christianity. Sermons, books, and conferences often teach that the key to happiness and spiritual growth is found in developing healthy self-esteem. But what does the Bible say about self-esteem? Does the cross of Christ call us to esteem ourselves more, or does it call us to die to self and glorify God? As believers, we must return to Scripture for clarity. The issue isn’t about psychology, personal affirmation, or “feeling good” about [...]
Many people today struggle with gender dysphoria and confusion about identity. Biblical discernment begins with God—not feelings—and offers truth and hope for those living in a fallen world. This article explains how Scripture addresses gender confusion, the renewed mind, and transformation in Christ.
Where does emotional pain really come from? Discover how the Bible explains the heart behind our emotions, and why true healing begins with a biblical worldview, not a diagnosis.
Is My Loved One Sinful or Sick? In this episode of the David Tyler Podcast, Dr. David M. Tyler explores the important question: Is my loved one sinful, or are they sick? Nearly all marriage and family problems stem from sinful attitudes and behaviors. Yet today, culture often labels sin as a “disorder” or “disease.” Drawing from Scripture, Dr. Tyler examines the dangers of redefining sin, why it matters for biblical counseling, and how hope and healing are found only in Christ.
Who Are You When No one is Watching? “It’s easy to look spiritual in public, but who are you at home? This podcast calls men to authenticity, humility, and Christlike leadership where it matters most.”
A Counseling Ministry at Your Church; Why? Counseling is a targeted part of discipleship that addresses the personal struggles keeping someone from growing spiritually. It involves coming alongside them, applying Scripture to their situation, and helping them understand how to change. It’s a more concentrated and temporary form of discipleship with the goal of restoring spiritual momentum and guiding them back to steady, ongoing growth in Christ.
A Courageous Husband and Father The most foundational form of leadership in society is a husband and father’s leadership in the home. From creation, God established man as the head of the family, calling him to lead with Christlike love and raise his children in the Lord’s instruction. A father’s influence shapes future leaders, making strong leadership at home essential.
Love Languages is Not Your Problem The Five Love languages by Gary Chapman. I do think he gives some constructive advice. For example, everybody has their preferences as to the way they like their spouse to show love. On the other hand, I don’t agree with his main premise. Chapman’s premise is built upon the fact that all people have a natural focus and bias toward self. Self, not God or neighbor is the focus of the book.
It’s Okay to Be Angry But … “Be angry and yet do not sin…” (Ephesians 4:26).The goal is not to eliminate all anger, only sinful anger. Unfortunately, many believers do not know how to distinguish between righteous and sinful anger. They think their sinful anger is righteous anger. The result is they remain un-reconciled with their husband, wife, mother, father, son or daughter. This podcast will help you to know the difference.
What Do Therapists Really Do? Psychotherapy is considered to be a medical intervention. But is it? What do individuals, called patients and psychotherapists, really do? They talk. Simply put… Psychotherapy is one or more people, called a patient, having a conversation with a therapist. And that is viewed as a medical intervention. Politicians, teachers, lawyers and Oprah talk but no one believes that their talk constitutes a form of medical treatment. My point is, when you consider what psychotherapists say they do and what they actually do is it really a medical intervention?
Overcoming Sinful Cravings and Desires Feel trapped by cravings that keep winning? Discover biblical, step-by-step help in our new post “Overcoming Sinful Cravings and Desires.” Learn why James 1 pinpoints the real battle, inside the heart, and how Galatians 5 shows the Spirit-powered way out. Freedom is possible!
When Crisis Strikes Your Family: A Biblical Response This episode addresses the struggles families face when unexpected trials and hardships come. Dr. David Tyler points listeners to God’s Word as the unchanging source of hope and direction in times of turmoil. This episode shows how Scripture provides clarity, comfort, and practical steps for families seeking stability in the midst of crisis. It’s a call to trust Christ and apply biblical truth when life feels overwhelming.
Is Alcoholics Anonymous Biblical? The Rise of Spiritual Relativism in the 12-Step Movement Is Alcoholics Anonymous biblical? Many Christians ask this question because Alcoholics Anonymous frequently speaks about God and spirituality. However, a closer look reveals that Alcoholics Anonymous is built on unbiblical foundations that promote spiritual relativism rather than the truth of Scripture. As Christians, we must carefully discern whether AA’s message aligns with the gospel of Jesus Christ or points people away from Him. Today, nearly every behavioral struggle, from gambling and overeating to compulsive shopping and substance abuse, has been reclassified as a “disease” and matched with [...]
“When Grief Hits Home, Learning to Walk Again in Faith” “Grief That Leads to Growth” By David M. Tyler, PhD Biblical Counseling Marriage and Family This post is Part 4 of my When Grief Hits Home series. If you missed Part 1,2, or 3 you can read them here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Edith’s Return to Church In a follow-up session one week later, I asked Edith [...]
“When Crisis Strikes Your Family: A Biblical Response” David Tyler, PhD “When crisis strikes your home, it can feel overwhelming. But Scripture provides a biblical response to family crisis, offering wisdom, comfort, and direction for every believer. God has not left us without guidance, His Word shows us how to respond in faith rather than fear, and how to lead our families through trials with hope in Christ.” Every person is either in a crisis, has just come out of a crisis, or is headed toward one. That is the reality of life in a fallen world. But the good [...]
Difficulties and Challenges of Parenting: A Biblical Perspective by David Tyler, PhD Parenting is one of the greatest joys and also one of the most difficult challenges entrusted to us by God. Children are not inconveniences to endure; they are gifts from the Lord, blessings that bring meaning, purpose, and happiness to our lives. Scripture tells us that children are “a heritage from the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). Yet in a sinful and fallen world, raising children can feel overwhelming. Many parents today wrestle with questions like: How do I guide my children toward truth in a culture pulling them the [...]
Is My Loved One Sinful or Sick? A Biblical Response to Modern Diagnoses by David M. Tyler, PhD Nearly all marriage and family problems are the result of someone’s sinful behavior and attitude. Sadly, in today’s culture there has been a major shift in how people view these struggles. More and more, what the Bible clearly calls sin is being described as a sickness or disorder. This confusion, often referred to as the debate of sin vs sickness, creates serious problems for Christians, because it replaces biblical categories with medical or psychological ones.Nearly all marriage and family problems are the [...]
“When Grief Hits Home, Part 4 Learning to Walk Again in Faith” “Grief That Leads to Growth” By David M. Tyler, PhD Biblical Counseling Marriage and Family This post is Part 4 of my When Grief Hits Home series. If you missed Part 1,2, or 3 you can read them here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Biblical Grief Counseling: Sanctification Takes Time There is no such thing as instant [...]
“When Grief Hits Home” Part 3 When the Tears Won’t Stop: A Biblical Way Forward Applying 2 Timothy 3:16 to Break Free from Lingering Grief By David M. Tyler, PhD You can read parts 1 and 2 here: https://davidtylerbooks.com Part 1: When Grief Hits Home: A Biblical Path Through Loss Part 2: When Grief Becomes a Habit: A Biblical Warning About Stuck Sorrow Biblical Counseling Marriage & Family Blog A Four-Part Framework for Biblical Change Paul wrote in 2 Timothy 3:16, “All Scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness.” These [...]
“When Grief Hits Home” Part 2 “How Long Will You Grieve?” Habitual Grief (1 Samuel 16:1) Biblical Steps to Move Forward When Grief Takes Over By David M. Tyler, PhDIf you missed Part 1, you can read it here: https://bit.ly/3FKooU9 Let’s Talk Honestly, Grief Can Become Sinful Grief isn’t a sin. It’s normal. Even Jesus wept. But habitual grief is a sin. It’s when grief takes over, when it becomes a way of life and keeps us from doing what God has called us to do, that’s a problem. That’s when grief crosses a line and becomes sinful. This is where [...]
When Grief Hits Home: Part 1 A Biblical Path Through Loss How God’s Word Leads You Through Sorrow with Truth and Hope By David M. Tyler, PhDThis post is Part 1 of my “When Grief Hits Home” series. If Jesus Wept, So Can You Grief is a painful reality in a fallen world. Whether it’s the loss of a spouse, a child, or a dear friend, the weight of sorrow can feel overwhelming. But there is hope, and it’s not found in temporary relief or empty clichés. It’s found in Christ. Biblical grief counseling offers more than comfort; it points us [...]
ADD ADHD: Raising Happy, Godly Kids This blog article is not about child psychology. It is not like the pragmatic approaches to parenting a child labeled ADHD. I am not proposing a new method. Instead, my goal is to present the principles of biblical parenting as it pertains to the behaviors associated with the label ADHD. I am convinced that if Christian parents understand, apply the simple principles set forth in Scripture they can bring their children up in a way that honors Christ. This is not to imply that parents with children labeled with ADHD are bad parents. It [...]
