How the Gospel Changes Everyday Marriage

How the Gospel Changes Everyday Marriage

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-09-15T09:14:28-05:00September 15th, 2026|biblical counseling, marriage|

How the Gospel Changes Everyday Marriage

David M. Tyler, PhD.

Over the years, I have counseled many husbands and wives who came into my office convinced that their greatest need was to fix their marriage. They wanted better communication. They wanted fewer arguments. They wanted their spouse to understand them. They wanted to feel close again.

Those desires are understandable. But very often, the problem was deeper than the marriage itself. Marriage has a way of revealing what is already taking place in the heart.

A husband’s anger may expose his demand to be respected. A wife’s bitterness may reveal years […]

Why Spiritual Growth Matters More Than Marriage Techniques

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-08-10T11:31:27-05:00August 10th, 2026|biblical counseling, marriage|

Why Spiritual Growth Matters More Than Marriage Techniques

David M. Tyler, PhD.

Every struggling marriage seems to generate another list of techniques. Better communication. More date nights. Learn your spouse’s love language. Resolve conflict more effectively. While many of these suggestions contain practical value, they often overlook the deeper issue.

As a biblical counselor, I have met many couples who knew what they were supposed to do but still failed to do it consistently. They understood communication principles. They could explain healthy conflict resolution. Yet their marriages continued to deteriorate because the real problem was never a lack of […]

How Deceptive Thinking Damages Relationships

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-07-27T11:26:17-05:00July 27th, 2026|biblical counseling, marriage|

How Deceptive Thinking Damages Relationships

David M. Tyler, PhD.

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Many relationship problems begin long before harsh words are spoken. They begin with deceptive thinking. Discover how replacing lies with God’s truth can transform your marriage and strengthen every relationship.

Deceptive thinking in relationships often begins long before a marriage starts falling apart. Healthy relationships are built upon God’s truth and flourish when husbands and wives view God, themselves, and one another through the lens of Scripture. Many struggling marriages are not destroyed by one dramatic event. Rather, they slowly deteriorate as deceptive thinking quietly reshapes the way husbands […]

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