Why Children Lie: What Scripture Reveals

Why Children Lie: What Scripture Reveals

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-04-06T11:56:26-05:00April 6th, 2026|Biblical, Parenting Struggles|

Why Children Lie: What Scripture Reveals

David M. Tyler, PhD.

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Children do not begin lying suddenly or without cause. Lying develops as part of a pattern in the heart. What appears as a behavior problem is often the outward expression of deeper desires, fears, and beliefs. Understanding why children lie helps parents address more than words, it helps them shepherd the heart.

Lying rarely develops in isolation. As explained in What Causes Teenage Rebellion: Why It Is Rarely Sudden.

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Teaching the Fear of the Lord Before Crisis Comes

Teaching the Fear of the Lord Before Crisis Comes

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-03-30T13:43:53-05:00March 30th, 2026|Biblical, Parenting Struggles|

Teaching the Fear of the Lord Before Crisis Comes

David M. Tyler, PhD.

Featured Excerpt

Rebellion rarely begins in a moment, it develops over time. Scripture calls parents not only to correct behavior, but to shape the heart through the fear of the Lord long before crisis comes.

Introduction: The Work That Happens Before the Crisis

Teaching the fear of the Lord to children is central to biblical parenting.

By the time rebellion becomes visible, much of the heart has already been shaped.

Parents often feel caught off guard when attitudes shift, resistance increases, or a child begins to pull away. It can […]

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How Can Parents Hold Authority Without Panic? | Biblical Parenting

How Can Parents Hold Authority Without Panic? | Biblical Parenting

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-03-16T13:59:51-05:00March 16th, 2026|Biblical, Parenting|

How Can Parents Hold Authority Without Panic? | Biblical Parenting

David M. Tyler, PhD.

When authority is challenged, parents often respond by either tightening control or pulling away. Scripture calls parents to a steadier path, one that holds authority with clarity, consistency, and trust in God rather than fear. Biblical authority is not maintained through panic or withdrawal, but through faithful, patient leadership over time.

Holding Authority Without Panic or Withdrawal

Few things test parents more than having their authority challenged. When children resist instruction, […]

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When Fear Begins to Drive Parenting Decisions

When Fear Begins to Drive Parenting Decisions

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-03-10T10:18:39-05:00March 8th, 2026|Anxiety & Fear, Biblical, Parenting|

When Fear Begins to Drive Parenting Decisions

Fear in parenting often appears as urgency or pressure, yet Scripture calls parents to lead with wisdom, patience, and trust in God. Fear often enters parenting quietly, shaping decisions before parents realize it has taken control. When fear becomes the primary guide, clarity gives way to urgency and reactions replace wisdom. Scripture helps parents recognize when fear is influencing their decisions and calls them back to trust, steadiness, and purposeful authority.

Fear is a powerful motivator. In parenting, it often enters subtly, especially when conflict escalates or the future feels uncertain. Parents may not […]

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Trials and Afflictions: How God Uses Suffering to Shape His People

Trials and Afflictions: How God Uses Suffering to Shape His People

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2025-12-02T09:12:00-06:00December 2nd, 2025|Biblical, biblical counseling|

Trials and Afflictions: How God Uses Suffering to Shape His People

By David M. Tyler, PhD

Every Christian who desires to serve Christ will face seasons of hardship. These trials are not meaningless. God uses suffering to shape His people, forming, maturing, and equipping believers so they can comfort others with the comfort they’ve received.

Someone once said, “Preparation for ministry cannot be gotten from a degree or diploma. It cannot be learned in college or seminary… Our trials and sorrows become our credentials.”

That statement […]

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Emotional Pain: A Biblical View of Where It Comes From

Emotional Pain: A Biblical View of Where It Comes From

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-04-01T15:12:52-05:00October 7th, 2025|Addictions & Desires, Anxiety & Fear, Biblical, Blog Primary, Books & Resources, Faith & Trials, Personal Change & Discipleship|

Where does emotional pain really come from? Discover how the Bible explains the heart behind our emotions, and why true healing begins with a biblical worldview, not a diagnosis.

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PODCAST Alcoholics Anonymous and the Rise of Spiritual Relativism

PODCAST Alcoholics Anonymous and the Rise of Spiritual Relativism

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-02-26T13:00:56-06:00October 4th, 2025|Addictions & Desires, Biblical, Christian worldview, Podcast Primary|

Alcoholics Anonymous and the Rise of Spiritual Relativism Alcoholics Anonymous promotes a “god of your own understanding,” but that idea directly opposes biblical truth. In this episode, Dr. David M. Tyler explains how spiritual relativism distorts real repentance and why true freedom is found only in Jesus Christ.

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PODCAST Is My Loved One Sinful or Sick?

PODCAST Is My Loved One Sinful or Sick?

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-02-26T15:01:05-06:00October 4th, 2025|Addictions & Desires, Anger & Conflict, Biblical, Podcast Primary, renewed mind|

Is My Loved One Sinful or Sick? In this episode of the David Tyler Podcast, Dr. David M. Tyler explores the important question: Is my loved one sinful, or are they sick? Nearly all marriage and family problems stem from sinful attitudes and behaviors. Yet today, culture often labels sin as a “disorder” or “disease.” Drawing from Scripture, Dr. Tyler examines the dangers of redefining sin, why it matters for biblical counseling, and how hope and healing are found only in Christ.

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PODCAST Who Are You When No one is Watching?

PODCAST Who Are You When No one is Watching?

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2025-10-29T12:12:17-05:00October 4th, 2025|Biblical, Christian Living, Family & Parenting, Podcast Primary|

Who Are You When No one is Watching? “It’s easy to look spiritual in public, but who are you at home? This podcast calls men to authenticity, humility, and Christlike leadership where it matters most.”

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PODCAST A Courageous Husband and Father

PODCAST A Courageous Husband and Father

By David M. Tyler, Ph. D.|2026-02-26T15:47:16-06:00October 4th, 2025|Biblical, Parenting Struggles, Podcast Primary|

A Courageous Husband and Father The most foundational form of leadership in society is a husband and father’s leadership in the home. From creation, God established man as the head of the family, calling him to lead with Christlike love and raise his children in the Lord’s instruction. A father’s influence shapes future leaders, making strong leadership at home essential.

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